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Post by Gamoc on Jan 20, 2008 23:14:18 GMT
Yes, and God sent us on earth to solve problems. Yes, we do try to take the easy way out, I have plenty of times. But God didn't just send us to worship him, but so we can learn what risks we take just like the risk he took when he gave us freedom of will. If you don't want to do it just yet, then don't, if you feel the time is right, make the risk. I mean, nobody knows what's going to happen tomorrow, in an hour, or even in a minute.
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Post by Odian on Jan 20, 2008 23:16:50 GMT
You just turned into a minister of a church... that was creepy. I guess i will tell him tonight. I just need to NOT chicken out.
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Post by Gamoc on Jan 20, 2008 23:23:26 GMT
Don't worry, I'm still Christian and love to spread the word of God to whoever cares to hear it. I just don't believe in homosexuality as an abomination, if you read my thread in the religion board.
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Post by Odian on Jan 20, 2008 23:24:37 GMT
Yeah i read part of it...
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Post by Gamoc on Jan 20, 2008 23:34:38 GMT
Oh, okay. xD Well, if you do decide to do it, I wish you the best of luck.  |
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Post by Odian on Jan 20, 2008 23:36:52 GMT
Thanks. I just cornerned myself into doing it, i just sent him a text asking him to call me when he gets off work.
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Post by Gamoc on Jan 20, 2008 23:37:58 GMT
Well, it'll all be better when it's done. Just look at what the good things he could say would be. |
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Post by nagdagger on Jan 22, 2008 14:20:04 GMT
Cool story dude  I did so enjoy reading it ;D I definately think he's bi. Mainly because of what he said about everyone being bi. Does molly know your bi ? Oh, and he's 16 right ? He works already ?  yet he has parents who can give him rides anytime ? Do you work as well ? Man, I'm so excited to know what's going to happen on the next chapter of this...Real life ;D |
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Post by Odian on Jan 22, 2008 15:09:19 GMT
LOL
Molly does know im bi, and she knows that I like him. He does work already, and yes i also work. Ive actually worked for my parents since i was 13.... but i do have a vehicle.
Anyway.... ill explain what happened when i get back on the computer, i have to go to school...
Luckily we have half days today, because of semester finals.
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Post by Odian on Jan 25, 2008 3:36:18 GMT
Ok, so at about 10:30 Sunday night he called me. We talked for about two and a half hours, and then we both ran out of things to talk about. He said he was going to go to bed, and i said that he should wait because i have something to tell him. He then said " Geez, now you got me curious". I said that i wasnt sure if i should tell him, and then he said that he wouldnt tell a soul. So i told him. His answer was "I dont have a problem with that. As long as you are happy with yourself". Then, all of a sudden, we both started talking about random crap again for another half hou\r about how lots of people have been coming out this year. The next day of school, he kept coming up and talking to me almost constantly, almost like he has some newfound interest in me. Its kinda depressing, because he went to the SDD state tournament and hes going to be gone till sunday, so im kinda depressed. Anyway, thats all i can remember.
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Post by Gamoc on Jan 25, 2008 3:45:37 GMT
Well, it's wonderful that he doesn't mind your sexuality, at least. ^^ I mean, if he is bi or gay, you need to give him time to build up the courage to come out to you, it can take longer than you'd like, but it will happen if it does.
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Post by Odian on Jan 25, 2008 3:47:34 GMT
Thats what I figured. But why does he talk to me more now that ive told him? And its almost like he has some kind of spark in his eye when he talks to m enow.
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Post by Gamoc on Jan 25, 2008 3:52:55 GMT
He might be happy because he feels he has a chance. I mean, think about it, I know I'd be so much happier around the guy that I like if I knew that he were gay or bi because I would know that I have a chance with him, likewise he might feel the same about you.
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Post by Odian on Jan 25, 2008 3:56:26 GMT
Yes, but is it possible that he is straight but is more inclined to be friendly towards me since i told him?
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Post by Gamoc on Jan 25, 2008 3:57:22 GMT
Yes, there is always that, too. You'll have to wait it out until you either ask him or he asks you. I mean, this is definetely a patience thing.
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yet he has parents who can give him rides anytime ? 