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Post by IDK on Jun 3, 2009 21:34:33 GMT
 Well, today started out like any other day, I went to college. Seems simple enough right? Wrong. Theres this guy, in my class. I have been, well let's just say I have had a crush on him for quite a while. We are very good friends. A couple months back we got put together for a project to build a website together. Which is good considering I really like the guy. Well today we had to record a video for the website to complete it, but something happened. When we were trying to record the video, we were having a laugh and joking around, it was only me and him, so it was pretty fun. The next thing I knew, he ran over and kissed me on the cheek. (This is not unusual for him to kisses me on the cheek me, all the time..). As he was about to kiss me, I turned my head too far and we kissed each other on the lips. I was fairly happy about this for obvious reasons, since I like him and all. The thing is, does he like me? It's not like he really complained, infact he seemed to really enjoy it and commented after "that was just about tongue!" and smiled. He always seems to be cuddling me or kissing me on the cheek or sitting really close next to me when we are together. I just don't know if he is one of those "physical" outgoing people, you know the sort. He never seems to be like this with anyone else in the class though, just me. Now here comes the issue..he is in his 30's with 2 kids. I just really dunno if he likes me or not, he is single though. I don;t mean to make him out like a complete pervert because he isn't, he actually seems like he cares and always compliments me. Can anyone give me any advice on what I should do? We only have a couple of weeks of college left before the holidays, so I want to make the next move before it is to late, I am just unsure if I should or not since I am not out. I have his phone number and have him on various networking sites. I am just really unsure on what to do.  Also, he keeps saying comments like "if you read this right next time I will have to kiss you again!" To me, all the signals point that he is gay or bi and likes me but I am just to scared. |
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Post by Gamoc on Jun 3, 2009 23:35:56 GMT
They don't point. Really, they're not pointing in the direction of gay or bi and like you. They're screaming it. He kisses you and nobody else. He cuddles with you and nobody else. He treats you like a boyfriend and nobody else. Make your move! This is something that you could and should go for. If you don't, you'll just hate yourself. I made the wrong move with the boy that I like and didn't take him whenever I had the chance and now I'm beating myself up about it. Take the chance!
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Post by Stacey Morgan on Jun 4, 2009 0:35:43 GMT
30 isn't old, but how old are you? But as Gamoc pointed out, " If you don't, you'll just hate yourseflf."
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Post by andrewlj2002 on Jun 4, 2009 1:13:49 GMT
30 isn't old, but how old are you? According to his profile, IDK is 17. |
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Post by IDK on Jun 4, 2009 16:21:44 GMT
Well, I turn 18 pretty soon.
I'm just really worried if he finds out he might be really freaked out by it or something. If I was out about my sexuality I suppose it wouldn't be as difficult.
Haha, I was going over the footage that we recorded the other day and it recorded him kissing me, when he went back over to the camera he said "oops, forgot to pause it".
I do hate myself for not already asking him...
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Post by Gamoc on Jun 4, 2009 20:21:55 GMT
Then take your chance, now!
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Post by LonelyArtist on Jun 13, 2009 23:02:30 GMT
The "with kids" is suspicious to me. It still might be a good idea to tell him you like him, but I'd be careful. How old are his kids? They might not be so understanding if their father's new boyfriend is almost their age? Obviously, tell him you like him, but until you gain the trust of his kids, take it slow.
But I suppose you don't have to worry about that yet. You haven't even gone out with him yet!
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Post by IDK on Jun 16, 2009 15:34:30 GMT
Haha, exactly, It's nothing I haven't thought about before.
I'm sorry it's taken me so long to write back, we moved house so I had no internet connection.
Well, we are going on a night out on sunday so maybe it's a good chance to get to know him more without the stress of college work. Who knows?
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Post by Stacey Morgan on Jun 17, 2009 21:09:48 GMT
I hope it goes well! - Don't put it off.
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Post by Gamoc on Jun 22, 2009 14:46:48 GMT
That's awesome! I hope that it goes well for the two of you!  Remember...stay CALM!  |
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Remember...stay CALM! 