hi, nice to meet you guys, I need help.

[desperateseeking]

Hi.

my name is andrew, and I have a dilemma, one that can easily be fixed, by hopefully you guys here

I'm just a normal guy, I dated a lovely girl for a year or two and now we're kinda on and off in a weird way


recently I discovered I was bi.


I want to find a guy tonight, I'm going out tonight, and I want all the advice you can give me to get the attention of other gay guys while I'm out tonight


i'm serious


I'm a cool guy, i'm a big fan of MSI, sublime, and decemberists, i'm an artist, a skateboarder, a stoner, and a lover, help me please.

help me.

[andrewlj2002]

Well, it might be a little late for a response, but are you going to a place that typically has a high gay population (gay bar, for example)? If so, my answer is just to go up and talk to someone! If not, then it becomes more difficult.

Btw, welcome to the board, Andrew.

[Stacey Morgan]

No, no, no...
I've seen this before, the impulse thing.

If you are going on a "man-hunt" remember to be safe.

[andrewlj2002]

Yes, definitely be careful, Andrew.

[Gamoc]

Welcome to the forum.

I'd like to help you, but I'm having trouble with a guy and I've never even gone out with someone, before.

[mariposa]

Hi, I'm Sara, and I've also recently come out of the closet as bisexual. I am also in a relationship.

I would say that you should try to be yourself. I know you can get nervous when you first meet other LBGT people, especially when it's for dating purposes. But just be open, friendly, and have a good time. I hope that helps.

[Stacey Morgan]

Good advice