My Life

[Ty34]

Hey guys! My name's Tyler and I just thought I tell you a little bit about my story. Here it goes...

I never really thought of myself as being anything other than straight until 3 or so years ago. At that time, I started becoming attracted to certain guys. Not every guy though. It was mainly the really feminine gay guys. I don't know what it was. Something about them attracted me to them. I figured it was a phase or something or whatever adults like to say. So i never really thought much of it. But it never went away. Then I started to become attracted to not just the feminine guys, but most good-looking guys.

I not really sure if I want to call myself bisexual (I'm still attrated to females - more so than males) but there's obviously an attraction there. I do often desire to be with a man. I see certain guys walking down the hallway and think of how nice it would be to be with them.

I've never actually persued dating a man though.

In addition to this recent relavation that I could be bi, I have also noticed my tendency to be feminine myself. I like to think about what it would be like to be a female. I sometimes try on women's clothing and admire how I'd look. I think about the possiblity of getting a sex-change later in life too.

There's a brief little look into my life. It was a bit ranty and hope you understand me.

~Ty

[Stacey Morgan]

Seems like you are trying to label yourself. My advice would be to just sit back and enjoy the ride. You will eventually find yourself, but for now, just be you.

[lala003]

the first paragraph seem like my life. its so much the same its kind of scary. but since im here and lots of peops said its ok to say that im bi im a lot more peaceful to know myself that im. i mean i havent told yet anyone and i havent been with a girl yet but i like my thoughts that it could be a possibility. so i hope its getting better and better with time. and i was always thinking that it doesnt mather who the person is which colour which religion which gender the only thing that counts is that you love that person to death. ( the gender part of the sentence is in there since im convinced that i would be able to have a relationship with a woman too )

[LonelyArtist]

It's not ranty at all! It was actually surprisingly clear. I commend you for having your thoughts in order, at least from what I can tell right her. That'll make everything a lot easier.

[Gamoc]

First of all, understand this now. If you find yourself attracted to both men and women, then you are a bisexual. Embrace your bisexuality, that doesn't mean you have to come out of the closet (lord knows I haven't), but it does mean that you don't need to worry about it or be confused about it. It can be very confusing, yes, but it can also be very easily comprehended. Most people don't want to admit this sort of thing to themselves, so they say things like "I only think I am" or things like that. You are! Embrace who you are and love every good thing that God gave you!

As for the sex change, I highly discourage and am very against sex changes because of how dangerous they can be. Three out of ten men (or something like that) die whenever they get their penis removed. If you want to be like a woman, go drag or something.

[Ty34]

Thanks for all your input guys. It's really helpful.

I agree that I am a bisexual. I guess, like you said, it can be hard to come to that realization. I mean, I attracted to guys and wouldn't mind a relationship with one. That's fine with me.

Also, I don't think I would have ever persued a sex change. Just a thought I have locked away.

As for me elsewhere, I don't see any reltionship opportunties out there for me yet. I just plan on taking it easy and loving who I am.

[andrewlj2002]

Apr 25, 2009 23:58:59 GMT Ty34 said:

I just plan on taking it easy and loving who I am.

Great plan!