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Post by Gamoc on Jun 19, 2008 5:18:55 GMT
Is anyone abstinent here? Just wondering? I guess I would have to say that I'm not. I don't know, it just doesn't seem worth the wait if I truly love someone and have been with them long enough.  |
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Post by Crow on Jun 19, 2008 5:27:41 GMT
I guess i am. Though, if i like somebody enough, no.
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Post by tinkertoo on Jun 19, 2008 15:32:49 GMT
i'm not really. i mean, i'm a virgin but i know if i find the right person & i love them then whats the point in waiting?
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Post by Gamoc on Jun 20, 2008 6:45:30 GMT
Yeah, but I'd definitely have to love that person a lot.
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Post by andrewlj2002 on Jun 20, 2008 12:55:13 GMT
I'm not.
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Post by nagdagger on Jul 9, 2008 10:12:59 GMT
I'm VERY ! But mainly because I've never done it and I don't feel the need SO soon, although I want to a lot...
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Teri
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Post by Teri on Jul 31, 2008 18:55:07 GMT
I don't think I could make that kind of move unless I have committed to someone, so I'd say I was. I also would hate to get pregnant if I wasn't married, so I think I would be too scared to. xD
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Post by love on Aug 4, 2008 19:34:17 GMT
Saving till I'm married
Even with Emily I am.
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Post by LonelyArtist on Dec 27, 2008 16:17:05 GMT
Um...I guess I am. If possible, I want the loss of my virginity to be protection-free and with a man (even though I'm a lesbian :-D). So, to be safe, that would mean me knowing he doesn't have any diseases and being ready for a baby. Preferably marriage, but ready-for-a-baby is important-er.
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Teri
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Post by Teri on Mar 17, 2009 20:41:02 GMT
I could never have sex with a guy... I dunno, it's just not appealing to me in the least. My friend doesn't understand. xD
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Post by LonelyArtist on Mar 19, 2009 23:36:27 GMT
I do know what you mean, Teri. It's just that I want my first time to be how [God/evolution...take your pick] intended. It's weird, but true. I'm asexual anyway, so the whole sex thing doesn't really matter, it's just the whole "if I had to choose" thing.
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Teri
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Post by Teri on Mar 27, 2009 17:02:51 GMT
Yeah, I get that. That's a cool way of seeing it... I still don't think I could do it though. Because, well, if I didn't really love the guy...
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Post by †. a l i c e on May 30, 2009 1:34:28 GMT
I'm a born-again virgin. Don't do it 'til you're married, folks - it's just not worth it.
I am very ashamed to say that I only ever had sex with my second boyfriend because I was a fool to believe him when he said he loved me. It was protected, and thankfully nothing came of it (a baby or and STD, I mean). He told me he was a virgin, but I later found out he was lying whilst talking with his earlier ex-girlfriend on Facebook. -sigh- I will always regret not waiting until marriage. But what's done is done.
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Teri
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Post by Teri on May 30, 2009 1:44:22 GMT
Aw, that sucks, Alice. I'm sorry.
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Was it at least good? xD
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Post by †. a l i c e on May 30, 2009 1:55:39 GMT
It was AWWEEESSOOMMMEEE.
=P
But I think it would be more awesome if it was with my life partner. :]
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